Monday, July 23, 2018

Craft Ideas for Busy Moms





Because I don't have much free time, my creativity usually comes out in my cooking and baking. But I find that if I go for too many months without doing something artsy, I become disgruntled. I need to do art because it feeds my soul. I love seeing my environment beautified by something that came from my own two hands. And as much as I enjoy feeding my family, sometimes I just want to make something that won't get devoured in two minutes flat! 

First, let me say that I don't consider myself to be a crafter, and this is not a craft blog. But I do enjoy making quick and simple decorations for my home, and I've learned how I can make that happen even with little ones. For years, I tried to do art, then grew so frustrated that I would abandon it for a while, only to try again because I needed it so much. It took me a while to figure out how to balance my creative time with my mothering time. So if you like arts and crafts, I'm excited to share with you what I've learned!

Second, I need to say that if you're a new-ish mom (or even a veteran mom), tell yourself not to feel guilty about taking some time to do something you love. I don't really believe in "me" time, but I do believe in "God" time, which means enjoying God by doing what He created you to do! Whether you need to go out for a bike ride or jog, play the piano, read a book, refinish a table, catch up with a friend over coffee… if it refreshes you, do it! You may feel like you're abandoning your post, but you'll actually be a better (and happier) mom when you reunite with your kids!

And now, on to the projects! 

My criteria for crafts is that 1) they do not require long periods of attention or many days and 2) I use as many found objects as I can (meaning I spend as little money as possible). I love the challenge of creating something new from something old!

The first project is the welcome wreath pictured above. I made that today in just a few hours after I saw a similar wreath on the blog Elegant Nest. I love birch trees and I love music, so what is better than making birch tree-like bark out of music paper? The heart is shaped from an old wire hanger, and the 'welcome' from some bendy wire I found in the garage. I wrapped the ends of the 'welcome' wire around the heart, then duct taped them in place. Next, I cut up old piano music into strips, then used Mod Podge (available at craft stores) to wrap them around all the wire. (I brush the Mod Podge onto the strip of paper first, then wrap. Warning- it gets pretty sticky.) Lastly, I took some dead branches from a bush in our front yard. While carefully holding them in place, I wrapped paper (with Mod Podge) around the end of the branch, just enough to keep them from shifting. I also made sure the branches blended into the wire, so it looked as if the branches were growing out from the heart. If you look carefully, you will see three little butterflies I added as the finishing touch. Though I think I might add some color later… like many of my projects, it's a work in progress! (more about that in my next post!) 

Next is this all-occasion banner that came about when I grew tired of hanging store-bought paper "happy birthday" signs. I had a lot of felt on hand, which is perfect if you want a sewing project that requires no sewing! The triangles are actually diamond shapes folded in half to go around the string. I did end up stitching the letters and triangles on (using a simple straight stitch) but you can easily make a banner with just felt and glue. Bonus–you can work on one letter a day.



Here is another banner-type decoration. I found that I had lots of fabric scraps that were too small for any big project, but perfect for making a "rope" to hang things on.  I pulled out fabrics of similar color, cut them into small strips (about 1/2 inch by 3 inches), and knotted them together, end to end, until I reached my desired length. The "rope" is perfect for hanging children's artwork, signs, or photos because the knots keep things from sliding around. And it also adds a touch of color to any room! I have the blue/yellow rope pictured here, and also a red/green rope for Christmas. I use my Christmas one to hang cards as they arrive in the mail.





Another quick project is arranging pressed flowers in an old frame. Flowers can be pressed in between the pages of any book (put things on top of the book to press down on the flowers), then glued onto paper using simple white glue (like Elmer's). Sometimes I collect wildflowers on my walks, just to have pressed flowers on hand when I feel the urge to be artsy! These two frames hang in my main bathroom.









Then of course, I have my ever-handy chalkboard. I used to get so frustrated because my art would get ruined by a child, or I messed up my own artwork when a child disrupted me. With chalk, I can wipe it clean and try again, and again, and again. I can work on it for a few minutes at a time and not worry about the paint drying while I step away to change a diaper. Big chalkboards can be pretty pricey, so make your own if you have a big frame that you no longer need. All you need is a bottle of chalkboard paint from the art store. I actually recommend this, because many of the chalkboards on sale now have a slick surface, which is good for chalk markers, but not as good for real chalk. And real chalk is still pretty cheap–just buy a box of white ones like the ones we used to use in school!




If you have questions about any of the projects, please ask. As always, if you have ideas to share, feel free to do so! I'm always up for trying new things! And I hope you feel inspired to do something artsy today, even if it's only for ten minutes!

Sunday, July 8, 2018

The Bug Lost and Found

I can't believe it's been half a year since my children's book came out! My book is now on the shelf of the Livermore library, and recently, I had a chance to share my stories there and be a bit of a 'local celebrity'. It was a whole new experience for me!

My book is still available for purchase on Amazon.com, and if you'd like a preview (or have little ones that need quiet entertainment for a few minutes), you can view a video of the book on YouTube! The Bug Lost and Found video was made by my sister-in-law and features the voices of seven of my eight children (the baby talks a lot, but is not ready for a voiceover career yet).

Enjoy!

Tuesday, July 3, 2018

Front Porch Hospitality

Your doorbell rings and you peek outside to see a stranger on your front step. What do you do?

A) Tell the kids to hush and pretend you're not home
B) Open the door, yell "I don't want any!", then slam the door
C) Open the door, point emphatically to the 'No Solicitors' sign, then slam the door
D) Listen politely to the person's rehearsed speech (at least part of it), then politely send him on his way

I'll be the first to confess, I've done A) once or twice. I had a really nasty experience with a vacuum cleaner salesperson once. But usually I do D), which is the obvious right choice, no matter how much it may make me tense up.

The thing is, whether they are Mormons, solar panel salesmen, or pest exterminators, they are still people. And even though they are mere strangers to me and may never enter my home, I can still extend hospitality to them.

Take yesterday, for example. My doorbell rang around 7:30pm. I wasn't expecting anyone. Outside my door was a young man asking for donations. My husband and I chatted with him for several minutes and by the end of our time together, we knew the young man's name, a few things about him, and the fact that he's been doing this all day long. So I send him off with a bottle of water and a baggie full of homemade cookies. 

It's that easy.

We know that the Bible is full of examples of hospitality. However, when we think about hospitality, we oftentimes ask, "Who can I invite over for dinner?" or "How can I make my home more warm and inviting?" or "What's on the menu?" We are not thinking about the stranger who passes not through our front door, but by our front door. 

But take a look at God's commands to the Israelites in Deuteronomy. He tells them to give a portion of their harvest to "the sojourner, the fatherless, and the widow, who are within your towns" (see Deut. 14:28-29). He also says to leave food in the fields for these people (Deut. 24-19-22) and to allow them to celebrate with the Israelites (Deut. 16:10-14). Although these people may be strangers from a foreign land (and not followers of Yahweh), they are still to be welcomed and receive a portion of God's bounty!

So, here are some ideas for how you can extend your hospitality beyond your front door!

- Offer a cup of water to a door-to-door solicitor

- Put snacks (chips, granola bars, trail mix) or drinks (soda, juice, water) in a box by your front door, with a sign for the post carrier or package delivery person to help themselves. This is especially appreciated during the busy Christmas season. (idea courtesy of Luke and Elise Greenaway)

- Pass out flyers to your neighbors and host an ice-cream social on your driveway. Tell your neighbors to bring an ice cream topping of their choice to share. (I was invited to one of these, hosted by Jeff and Cristin Dersham!) 

- If you have a fruit tree in your front yard, put up a sign giving permission for passers-by to pick one or two. Or if you have an abundant harvest of fruit (lemons!) from your backyard, put some out on your sidewalk to share.

- At Halloween, set up a table with cookies, hot chocolate and coffee. Put out chairs so trick-or-treaters can rest for a bit. (I saw this at a house once. It was an oasis in the dark!)

Just remember, that though we may not be cultivating a deep friendship with the stranger at our door, we can still extend Christ's love to him!

And you shall rejoice in all the good that the LORD your God has given to you and to your house, you, and the Levite, and the sojourner who is among you. ~Deuteronomy 26:11 ESV

(And if you have ideas to share, please do!)